A New Experience
I started college last week in a completely new city surrounded by completely new people and I'm still reeling from the loneliness I felt, I know some might say that it takes time but I'm a shy person and it's just something I'm really worried about.
My girlfriend is living 3 hours away and so I only get to see her maybe once a week because of lectures and whatever! I see that she's meeting other guys and (not to sound uptight) I'm just worried as to whether we can make this work! I want to and so does she, very much so, but I'm just afraid that logistics of it all will prove too much in the end!
I'm sorry for the rather random blog but it's been bothering me all summer and now that it's finally come to be, I just had to make my feelings known.
James (Strayz)
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Moving sucks. But at least you get to see her! I would keep trying to make it work. Worse comes to worst, you'll be single for a little while. No big deal. I moved a few weeks ago and I wouldn't consider myself a social butterfly. But in most areas, you'll find people who are like you and are worth sticking around. Might take a few hours, days, weeks, but it'll happen. Good luck man
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I Can Highly Realate To Man. Except It's The Other Way Around. She's Off To College Far Away. This Is Probably Selfish Of Me, But I'm Glad She's Not Dorming Anymore. Even Then, She Lives, An Hour And Forty Minutes Away Traveling On City Transportation (Bus And/Or Train). It's Better Than Three Hours, But I Only See Her Once A Week As Well. And That's Due To Her Busy College Schedule. Her And I Have Always Had A Long Distance Relationship. It's Tough, But If U Guys Truly Wanna Be Together And Are Truly Devoted To Each Other, Then It Should Work Out
My Girlfriend I Are Doing Fine. I Trust Her And She Trusts Me. Gotta Have That Trust Man. That's Like The Foundation To A Strong And Good Relationship (If A Serious Relationship Is What U Want And Not Just Messing Around)
But If U Guys Are Leaning More On Doubts And Question, Then I Think U Guys Have To Discuss The Matter At Hand And Come To A Conclusion As To Wether Or Not U Both Should Continue. But As I've Said Before, If U Both Are Truly Devoted And Truly Only Want Each Other (No Second Thoughts On Other Guys/Girls) Then U U Both Should Be Fine. And I Know Seeing Each Other So Less Can Be A Motherfucker, But Remember Patience And Acceptance Is A Key Element In Life.
Just Make The Best Of When U Do See Her. And When U Guys Are Apart, Send Each Other Letters. If She's A Good Girlfriend, Then She Should Appreciate That. And If U Guys Can I Recommend Sending Pictures Every Once In A While With The Letters.
And As Far As Moving Goes, I Know What It's Like Too. Been Moving Ever Since The Day I Was Born. No Exageration. I've Met Many People And Have Had My Fair Share Of New Schools. I'm Pretty Shy Myself, But U Just Gotta Carry On Like It's Nothing At All. Easier Said Than Done, I Know. If U Don't Like Introducing Yourself To New People, Then That's Ok. People Will Come To U. Just Be Respectful And Keep To Yourself. Like I Said, People Will Come To U. Don't Worry Man. Things Will Begin To Fit In It's Right Place.0 Like
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